Thursday, May 15, 2014

Love Birds

Today is our four year wedding anniversary.  No big plans really.  Just peppering the day with reminiscent moments and nostalgic treats.  We are hoping to ship off Luke and Augustine for a good portion of the weekend so that we can do some major painting (basically the whole main floor of the house).  I might be starting the "nesting" phase already or it's obvious that even though painting isn't exactly easy with two little boys running around, it won't get easier by throwing a third child into the mix!  I'm on a bit of a roll today in finally getting some blogs published.  Hopefully there will be more coming soon and I don't overwhelm the readers.  It would, however, be lovely to hear from you out there.  Here's the agenda for this post. I'm most particularly interested in any feedback you have to offer on part "D".

A. Some photos from the wedding
B. Tribute to other lovebirds
C. Mothers' Day
D. Alfred Hitchcock's The Birds

                             A.
 vows and thereabouts

Exiting Our Lady of Perpetual Help Chapel as Mr. & Mrs.
Awwwwwwww
Brides and Bridegrooms

May 15th is quite the popular day.  Birthday shout out to our guests Scott and Christy and Happy Anniversary to Bill and Helen and Ed and Janet!
Forever Starts Today (Amen. Alleluia!)  The song Pete wrote for us to dance our "first dance".  It was wonderful yet awkward since it was 7 minutes long.  I was going to try and post the MP3 for you all but haven't figured it out yet.

Newlyweds and Oldlyweds
B. Pete and I feel especially blessed because our parents are still married and only married once. My parents celebrated their 32nd anniversary on March 20th and Pete and his siblings organized a big shindig for their parents' 45th anniversary who got married on April 26th.  We started the celebration at 11am Mass at Little Flower Parish where Pete grew up and his parents still attend.  We packed a "picnic" lunch then went to the Akron Rubber Ducks baseball game.  Then we all went to Matt and Debbie's for dinner, cake, and hanging out.  The Mr. and Mrs. we were honoring knew of the festivities but didn't realize the extent of the guest list.  Siblings and friends traveled from afar to join in the fun.  Thank you to everyone that helped honor Matt and Cathy and their commitment to God, the sacrament of marriage, and their family.
Our own party spot in section 1/2

The boys meet the duck
Good food.  Good company.  Good times!

The happy couple displaying the commemorative framed "card" and hopefully viewing this blog from their new laptop computer ;-)
C.  As a combined celebration of my mother-in-law's birthday and Mothers' Day.  We invited Grandma and Grandpa Schafer over for dinner last Friday.  We had nutty stuffed mushrooms, homemade onion breadsticks, a tossed salad, and baked ziti. In lieu of a birthday cake I made a strawberry rhubarb pie, which just so happens to be both mine and my mother-in-law's favorite.  Unfortunately, I have not had much luck with my strawberry-rhubarb pies "setting up" in the past.  They still taste delightful, if you ask me, but they are a mess to serve.  Although I had a HORRIBLE Thursday, the day before the dinner party, the pie seemed to be the only bright spot in the day.  It was a lovely sight coming out of the oven and I wish I would have taken a picture once it was sliced displaying a perfect cross-section devoid of drips.  Oh...and it tasted good too!
Strawberry Rhubarb pie
Still steaming
We did head over to Pete's folk's on Mothers' Day as well after spending a good portion of the day at my parents' for a turkey dinner.  Pete afforded me the opportunity to sleep in by tending to the boys on Sunday morning and making us all breakfast (which is NOT uncommon on weekends).  He also picked out a birdfeeder for our family and birdseed.  Luke was very excited about the gift and asked countless times about when we were going to hang it up.  We made the poor kid wait until Monday- over 24 hours after the present was unwrapped.  The feeder is a pretty basic house-shaped design but it was made from recycled materials in the U.S. of A.  It's nice to be able to share the benefits of "green" with the boys and helps them see the benefits of our recycling efforts.
We hung the birdfeeder in our lone dogwood tree in our front yard so the boys could observe it easily out the front window.  Here it is only Thursday and the vessel is empty.  We're not entirely sure who the primary recipient of the seedy treat was as we witnessed both aviary guests and ornery squirrels partaking of the feast.

D.  And finally, among our recent views from the public library's collection was Alfred Hitchcock's The Birds. Have you seen it?  It made for an interesting discussion on one of our evening walks.  I might just tense up a little now if a bird flies overhead.  Any critics out there have any comments about the ending?
Do you suppose:
     a.) The love birds had anything to do with the whole ordeal?
     b.) The film is meant to be a social commentary on how women pick, peck, and attack others?
     c.) We ought to consider the plot of the movie a likely scenario if we fail to respect nature and other living creatures?
     d.) Bodega Bay is meant to be the only area subject to the plague/attack?  For what reason?

I'm interested to know what you think.  I suppose I ought to sign off and spend the rest of the night with my husband... Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit...
   


Gospel According to Luke

From the mouths of babes...  Just wanted to share some of those enlightening conversations/interactions with Mr. Luke Francis.  Hopefully,  I'll remember to recount some more instances as they occur.  Here's a start...

Sunday, August 3rd
Luke: Dad?  When you eat food do you get more energy and grow up more and more?
Pete: I think I am done growing up Luke.  I might grow a different way.
(brief pause- gears turning)
Luke: Are you growing down and down?

Thursday, June 13, 2014
After commending Luke on a job well done in puttingon his PJ's by himself only needing assistance with the buttons.
Luke: Uh, yeah. That's tuz I'm a-yergic
Me: Allergic to what?
Luke: I'm a-yergic to buttons.

Friday, June 6th, 2014
Pete pounding on the ceiling preparing for installation of new ceiling fan.
Luke:  Daddy, what are you doing?
Pete:  I'm trying to find a stud.
A little later Luke returns to say,  "I think you found one.  I hear it knocking back."


Saturday, May 10th, 2014 on the 35 minute ride home from a surprise birthday party for one of my friends Luke talked the entire way.  The last questions circulated around "How do they make cupholders?  How do they make cups?"  I had communicated the idea of using plastic and molds and the conversation continues...
Luke:  How do they make blankets?
Me: Blankets are made out of material and sown together.
Luke:  Mommy?  Did you make my blankets?
Me:  No. We bought your blankets.
L uke: But Mommy, you made Daddy's blankets right?
Me: Yes I made Daddy's blankets.
Luke: Who made my blankets.
Me: I don't know who made your blankets.  We bought them from the store.
Luke: But I know who made my blankets.
Me: Oh, yeah?  Who?
Luke: A Chinese person made my blankets.
I erupt into laughter.
Luke:  Daddy told me that.

...and as an encore.  My Uncle Kenny posted the following image a few days after the blanket conversation:


Early in Lent of 2014 as we were leaving our parish after Stations of the Cross  and our priest was congratulating us and inquiring about our new addition.
Msgr: What are you going to get? A boy or a girl?
Luke:  A sister.  I already have a brother.

Mid-February after returning from a weekend roadtrip to Maryland/DC via the turnpike.
Mom: Hearing, seeing, and smelling Luke as he raced throughout the main floor of the house- Luke, do you have gassers?
Luke:  with a shrug of his shoulders- They are just my rumble strips, mom.

Luke (2.5years): Mommy, why do you have a cross on your back?  (referring to the tattoo I got my sophomore year of college)
Me: Because I love Jesus.
Luke: But I don't like that cross there.
Me: slightly remorseful obviously not considering this conversation when I had the mark made-Well, I'm sorry Luke, but it is permanent.  I cannot get it off.
Luke: turning to run downstairs- Oh. Okay. I will go and get my eraser on my easel.
Luke: returning with eraser in hand rubbing it on my back-  It won't come off!


Luke (2.5 years) to UPS man making a delivery during Grandma Schafer's watch:  I want to be a trut driver when I det bid.
UPS man:  Don't drive a truck kid.  Go to college.
Luke (later in the day after much thoughtful consideration and audibly upset): But dramm-ma.  I don't wanna doe to tollege.  I want to drive a trut.
Sometime in the near future when Grandma Angie and Grandpa Steve were visiting and had heard of the account...
Grandma Angie: Luke, do you want to go to college when you grow up?
Luke (immediately enraged with big tears and red face): I don't want to doe to tollege!  I want to drive a trut! tantrum ensues for another 5 minutes

George in the Jungle

Enjoy the show.  It is nothing spectacular but you do get a glimpse of how these three cousins interact.  I've been watching my nephew George 2-3 days a week while my sister Tess and her husband are at work.  Tess is a preschool teacher so I started in September of 2013 and will get a break over the summer which will work well with the arrival of #3.  It's been interesting to see how the boys reacted to George's presence.  George Angelo was born on July 22nd 2013.  Yes it was the same day that Prince George made his debut as well, but Tess and Adam announced their baby's name first :-) !  Consequently that puts George at about the 10 month mark.  He is a strapping young lad.  I think he was a few ounces lighter than Augustine;s birthweight when he was born but he's not far behind Augustine now in terms of height and weight as you can see in the movie below.  George has been in the 97th to 100th percentile for his height all along.  He's a very active and strong little boy.  He is crafty.  What he can't get to by strategy he makes up for in brute force.
This morning when George arrived Luke and Augustine were still sleeping but George felt inclined to rouse them with an enchanting melody on the keys of the red piano.  These photos are from either February or March but George still entertains us on a regular basis.  His other favorite pastimes include opening the drawers of the end tables, retrieving and hiding toys under the couch, buzzing his lips and tracking down even the smallest piece of paper to hear it crinkle.  George tells us how it's all supposed to be with his long, emphatic chains of DA-DA-DA, NA-NA-NA, or MA-MA-MA while employing his pointer finger to add explanation and effect.  He produced a perfectly timed wave as his mom exited this morning and joins in cheers of joy with happy applause.  He's been enjoying a variety of solid food for the last 4 months or so despite the absence of teeth.  He progressed quickly from the sitting to crawling phase and was pulling himself up into standing position a week or two after he was crawling.  I'm sure that unassisted bipedal motion will be coming soon and I'm sure plenty of wily antics between him and his cousins will ensue.

One day I was feeling adventurous and took all the boys over to my grandparents in Rootstown.  My Aunt Margaret was in town with her son Marcos who was born in November.  These were the four youngest additions to the Francis clan until my cousin Jessica had her son Jaxson in March.



Sorry/ These pictures are surely out of order. At least I finally published the post after having it in my drafts since November.  I think this is the picture that I have of George at his youngest.
Below is my attempt to capture the afternoon stroll configuration for the fall when George was less active on his own- Schafer boys in the stroller and Geor\ge secured in the Moby. Nowadays George and Augustine get the double stroller and Luke tags along beside or helps me push while number three is "strapped in" by the comforting support of my belly band.  I get a lot of "You've got your hands full" comments as we traverse the neighborhood and particularly when we visit the library.  The fresh air and exercise does us all good and I figure it gives me practice for the days to come.
Augustine exhibited a little jealousy early on when I started watching George.  If I was holding George or feeding him his bottle, Augustine would get upset and want me to pick him up.  Of course if Luke noticed me with each of the little guys on opposite hips he would say, "Pick me up to mom!".  I managed the feat once or twice but it's totally out of the question these days with #3's occupancy.  For the most part, Luke was  oblivious to George at first and I had to make sure George was set up in a safe area out of the way of Luke's usual traffic pattern as he practiced his race car skills.  More recently though Luke will talk with George, play peek-a-boo, and sing him songs.  It's been fun to watch as the boys interact more playing follow the leader, exchanging hugs, playing ball, zooming cars, or climbing on the sack.


The photos above and below were taken November 26th 2013 putting Augustine at just over a year old, George at 4 months and Luke at two and a half.
Watch out world!  Who knows what kind of trouble these three are likely to get in to?!?!- and then we'll throw another little person into the mix!  Will these three dashing gentlemen be looking out for a little girl? Or will the fourth boy join the ranks?

Saturday, February 22, 2014

The Post of Christmas Past


The boys are settled down for the evening viewing A Very Merry Muppet Christmas so it's only fitting to do a brief flashback to the holiday season.  I would be lying if I said Christmas was perfect.  It was great to spend time with the family celebrating the nativity of our Lord but this being wife and mom adds a whole new dimension to the festivities.  Perhaps I find it particularly stressful because I feel the weight of instilling in our boys the REAL reason for the season.  To be completely honest, I was darn near exhausted myself at the thought/presence of our new baby that I didn't spend ample time pondering the birth of the Christ child.  Thank goodness Pete was around more to tend to the boys and give me the opportunity to indulge in the naps I shamelessly craved during the first trimester  (Yep, that's right folks!  If you didn't already know...baby Schafer #3 is a cookin'!).  More on that later.

The adventures began with a family outing on the Polar Express.  Uncle Stevie and Aunt Sarah supplied the tickets as a gift.  We seized the chance to get decked  out in our p.j.s and travel by rail to the North Pole.  The ride included hot chocolate (but not too hot :-), a chocolate chip cookie, a reading of the story all catered by volunteer elves on the way to the North Pole (a.k.a Peninsula, Ohio)where we picked up Santa Claus who visited with the children and passed out jingle bells.

This was our boys' first encounter with the jolly man in red.  Luke was puzzled by his questions of good behavior and what he wanted for Christmas.  What word would you use to describe the boys' expression?  I would certainly attest that they were not scared, but I could hardly purport that they were delighted either.
If you look closely, you'll notice that our oldest son, given the name Luke, insisted on his name being Curious George as displayed on his name tag.  This trend continues to this day although with a few added twists or personality options.  When we say his name he responds, "No.  I'm not Yute.  I'm Thomas!"  or "I'm Wall-E", or "I'm Woody", or "I'm Nightning Mt-Tween".  Most recently though he incorporates the lot saying,  "I'm not Yute.  I'm yots of names!".  Oh, hi Lots of Names.  Is that something like Dances with Wolves?!?!?.

Initially, we were planning on announcing the presence of our new baby at Christmas time when all the family was around.  After further reflection,  I found this to be somewhat facetious.  Our second thought was Gaudete Sunday but Pete's parents weren't cooperating.  You see, we wanted to share the news with them first since our previous two pregnancies we revealed to my parents first (if only by a few hours or a day).  Luke because he was the first grandchild for my parents and Augustine because we just so happened to go for the ultrasound earlier that day when my parents decided to come for a surprise visit to Maryland for Luke's first birthday.  Surprise visit, eh? We'll show you a surprise.  Back to the initial story, we decided to share the news on December 12th, the feast day of Our Lady of Guadalupe-patroness of the unborn.  Foiled again, Grandma and Grandpa Schafer decided to stay in for the evening and forego attending Mass for the third time in one day. Despite it being near, or past, their bedtime we interrupted their quiet night in with an appearance.  We did, however, come bearing gifts...
A bag of bags of nuts for Grandpa.
And, "Here dramm-ma.  Here is your twilt." Luke explained as he handed Grandma the unopened package.

At this point the quilt was not quite a quilt, but it was suitable for proclaiming the announcement.  Granted, Grandma was slightly confuzzled by the inverted view supposing that there were mommy and daddy handprints included and the punchline was located on the most distant corner.
Overhead view

In actuality, Pete and I had taken a design from a baby quilt book and tailored it to our specific needs to include the handprints of all the grandchildren with a projected image of the baby's footprint.  It was a fun project getting all the grandkids involved, even though, Lisa essentially guessed the secret when she brought over her four to make their contribution.

The project was fun and Pete was excited because he was in on the surprise rather than being the recipient this time.  The most difficult challenge was probably choosing the fabric.  We wanted to incorporate some of the aspects of life/grandparenthood that my in-laws most enjoyed [from our perspective] but had trouble tying the colors/prints together.  After getting over the hurdle that everything didn't blend together perfectly, we were able to make progress rather quickly.  I mean, with sports, and toys, and VW bugs, and musical notes, and ICE CREAM, Grandma and Grandpa would be a little forgiving right?!!?  Around the border,  I tried my luck with applique in adding a rosary.  God knows how many rosaries Grandma and Grandpa have offered up for us all so far.  Plus, pregnancy [and motherhood] has led me to pray more fervently.  Particularly with the expectation of a new child the delicate, early phases of pregnancy where you don't see or feel baby you simply hope and pray trusting God that tiny person continues to live and grow.
Here's the kicker
A couple other challenges that presented themselves throughout the project included having to do some piecing on the reverse side of the quilt and quilting the darn thing period.  Because I didn't have a big enough piece of material to make a solid back, and,  I wasn't about to go out and buy more fabric, I fiddled around with the material and pieces I already had cut.  It took some time but overall I was happy with the result.

The backside
The gift message
With Pete's quilts last year I had the luxury of working with Lisa's mother-in-law who has a special quilting machine that practically takes up a whole room.  Now that I am more interested and "experienced" at this sewing gig I wanted to do all the steps from start to finish with the materials and tools on hand.  We considered this at the onset of the project in designing the quilt to be a reasonable size to manage on a normal sewing machine.  I'm not sure what the finished dimensions were of the quilt, 5' X 6' perhaps.  There was a lot of fabric to move through the machine at times but it was a good size for my first machine quilting attempt.  My next quilting attempt may include homemade stockings for Christmases to come.  You'll see in the picture below that our current ninety-nine cent for two felt stockings are under duress.

In conjunction with the quilt project for Grandma and Grandpa Schafer we wanted to spend some quality time with our nieces and nephews as their Christmas gift.  The "other" Schafer boys, Jacob, Nick and Nate went sled-riding with Pete and the little guys,  came back to our place to add their handprints and birthdays to the quilt and then we all went to Chuck E Cheeses.  I was as excited as the boys since I have never experienced the venue myself.  A good time was had by all.  We are still determined to take out the Snyder gang ;-)





Other preparations included making our homemade wrapping paper.  I cut out some snowflakes using paper plates then had Luke use sponges and paint to add the impressions to layers of white tissue paper.


Paint refill
squish, squish, squish
 Following are a few photos of opening presents at my parents.  Luke received a large garbage truck which came in handy in cleaning up the wrapping paper.


clean up

We stretched out the Christmas celebration and didn't do our own present ceremony until the 6th day of Christmas.  Pete actually got pretty sick from the 26th to the 27th and was out of commission.  The following day I was under the weather.

Augustine's gold- beginner's band set and piano
Luke's myrrh- felt board

Luke and his "hook"
And for our other family tradition- pasta making on Holy Family Sunday we decided to try pierogis. We did three different fillings 1.) potato and cheddar 2.) sauerkraut and mushroom and 3.) apple blueberry






As we head into the third month of 2014 we continue to thank God for His many blessings: family, friends, health, and resources.